We had some marvellous guidance when looking for our boat. Got to know the chap who was looking for us by sailing with him and he came up with boats that would suit our capabilities and dreams! Short list of Bowman, Hallberg Rassy and Najad. Have to say he really got it right and has helped a number of others find the right boat for them.Maybe you already know a lot and have a better idea of what you want but from the list you talk about it seems to me that you need to do a lot more serious thinking about your future plans. Where do you want to sail,how capable are you and crew, do you envisage having guests on board frequently, how much money have you got,etc...
Anyway good luck! It took us two years to find the right boat but we are really glad that we waited for the right one....